vintagerepairer
Well-known member
Anger is a very dangerous and indeed selfish emotion. That's what I didn't take what you said with a pinch of salt. I grew up around anger you see and as a result had mild anger issues myself. However, I had to learn to deal with it as unfourtunatly there were not the excellent services avaliable to me back then as there would be now. I wasted a lot of my life and pushed people away because I could get angry. Thankfully by the time I was 30 I had all but dealt with it.
I could easily find things that might offend or indeed anger me, were I to look for them and then decide to react accordingly. I don't - look for them or react to it. There's no point.
Indeed on other occasions knowing I am right in the face of something that is obviously wrong is enough for me. A sense of internal smugness that I could have done better than the other party, or that the other party hasn't a clue how stupid they sound. I learnt to pat myself on the back metaphorically for my own good behaviour, rather than get angry at someone else's shortcomings. Afterall, none of us are really fit to judge anything. Life is so subjective.
I could easily find things that might offend or indeed anger me, were I to look for them and then decide to react accordingly. I don't - look for them or react to it. There's no point.
Indeed on other occasions knowing I am right in the face of something that is obviously wrong is enough for me. A sense of internal smugness that I could have done better than the other party, or that the other party hasn't a clue how stupid they sound. I learnt to pat myself on the back metaphorically for my own good behaviour, rather than get angry at someone else's shortcomings. Afterall, none of us are really fit to judge anything. Life is so subjective.