WHERE IS EVERYBODY???

[human]

I'm not on Facebook and don't intend to be. That said, I do stick around here, mostly lurking, but occasionally posting when I feel I have something worthwhile to say. I used to share posts about my latest 'vacquisitions', but I've been under a, mostly successful, self-imposed moratorium on purchasing any additional machines, although I did have a 'relapse' last summer, when I bought a mostly nice Kirby G4 and a not-so-nice Gsix that had parts needed (handle back, power cord and headlight bulb) to complete G4, far more cheaply than purchasing the parts a la carte. Thus far, I have resisted any temptation to acquire parts to put the Gsix back together.

 

[vacmadman]

Agree

Antoine,

I agree with you, but even the words rude and condescending are words that how should I say, deal with someone's feelings. What you may think is rude or condescending may not be rude or condescending to others. It's a real balancing act today.

It's seems we have lost the art of agreeing to disagree. We are also losing the ability to laugh at ourselves. like the old saying, some people "wear their heart or feelings on their sleeve", and as a result get their feelings hurt, again it's truly a balancing act today more than ever before.

Thanks for your response, Antoine.

Jim [this post was last edited: 10/29/2023-14:58]

 

[thevacomaticiec]

i supose your right    

 

[gottahaveahoove]

I come in here daily.

I go in all of the areas. I like to see, learn,etc. Yes, some have been snakry.... have you seen. What's been said about me? Lolol. I just try very to do the one thing they hate......IGNORE THEM. Works for me. I'm not going to allow anyone to ruin my time in here. I really enjoy everyone's posts.

 

[thevacomaticiec]

thats the right  way  to be  John

 

[human]

Well put, Jim! When I feel like someone's words toward me are hurtful, I remind myself that by feeling hurt, I am giving those words power. It is better to let go of those feelings and thereby deny those words--and the individual who directed them at me--any power they might otherwise have over me.

 

[lesinutah]

People

Think the know the facts about everything because people agree with them. If you disagree your toxic?
It sounds like someone just t wants to hear how great they are and those with different opinions are toxic.
I thought Justin Timberlake after getting cheated on was the only toxic person.

 

[odavid123]

Wow , I didn’t realize my “toxic” comment would garner so much attention.
I agree to disagree is a great way of putting it.
My issue which I believe is felt by many others is that it doesn’t end there but usually is toped with rude comments and verbiage . Just go through some of the threads .
Now that said , I do believe there is a cordial way of making your point . For example Jim disagreed with Liam about the condition of the bag but was very nice about it , he didn’t use any degrading or rude comments .

I think we should all be nicer and mindful of each other.

I will keep on posting here as it’s a great source of information and I would love to share my collection with others

I truly appreciate the opportunity,

David

 

[thevacomaticiec]

Now i have to agree with you there David

 

[vacmadman]

Toxic

David,

You were not the only one to use the word Toxic in this thread. You were the second to use it here. Thats why I asked the question. Personally, I don't ever remember using the word recently myself, but I have seen it used here in Vacuumland a number of times over the years. I agree with your comments and love your work and website. You are a real asset to this group...thanks.

Jim

 

[gmkubancsek]

I visit the forum daily. A lot of valuable information and history and talented people sharing information and repair techniques. I am grateful for those who answer the same old question by new members, and do it with grace, style, and professionalism. Thank you.

I enjoy the FB groups as well. I love to see the photos and commentary by ALL the talented individuals who share their knowledge and time - Kyle K and David O among them. Gary K.

 

[thevacomaticiec]

i visit alot here and on FB group to .

 

[vacmadman]

Facebook

I left FB due to the censorship on the website. When I restored my Kirby 4C I tried to post about it, and I started my post by saying "Ladies and gentlemen. boys and girls introducing my Kirby 4C"

FB would not let me post it using that comment. When I changed it to simply saying "introducing my Kiby 4C" That was OK but using the words ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls was not allowed. I guess it was too inclusive. Thats when I knew it was time to go, and don't get me started on FB fact checkers, what a joke.

Jim

 

[huskyvacs]

Everyone's still here. When this forum started in the mid 2000's I'll bet there was barely 100 people here. Consider nearly 4,000 an achievement! Also those numbers are inflated because it counts registered accounts, no matter who is registering. Most forum websites will have a long list of bot accounts registering and never post. This site also counts deleted/dead accounts as members I believe too. So even if it says over 3.5k members there likely isn't that many in actual human beings.

The more toxic and gatekeeping that social media gets, the more people will flock back to forums. Automotive repair and collector forum websites are still thriving regardless of social media because it's the only place you can get real answers and interactions about topics. Gotta play the long game. People will come back, and active talkative users will increase, just be patient.

 

[justjunque]

I'm here just about every day. I read just about every post. When I post, it's usually to ask questions, or to compliment someone else's awesome vacuums.
I don't have any knowledge to share with others. I'm mostly here to learn, admire, and to enjoy the company of others who share this somewhat strange hobby.
I don't do social media at all. And, I don't have a circle of friends in person to share this with.
So, I really appreciate everyone who has helped me with problems, shared our collections, or just exchanged some pleasantries.

 

[suckolux]

I daily read and sometimes post but not working on any.

 

[bagintheback]

Still here!

I check in and read the site a few times a month, but only chime in when I know I have something to add to the conversation. I joined the site when I was still a teenager and feel like I kinda grew up with Vacummland. I've moved a few times and have progressively less space to collect, but the interest is still there.

I try to stay off Facebook and Reddit; not sure where else there's collecting communities. I really hope this site never goes dark and would be willing to donate to keep it that way. The archive of knowledge is priceless.

 

[evolutionclean1]

Just returning!

Used to spend hours on the site, but moved to my Facebook group primarily recently. Testing the waters and it's kind of nice being back.

As for "toxic" behavior, I will admit without hesitation that I'm pretty sensitive at times there have been some fights on here but most of the time they resolve themselves. There's also become a bit of a divide in the community, but I don't know what's caused it. Some people prefer to stick to themselves and their smaller groups and that's fine. At the end of the day we all collect appliances that suck up dirt, so what's to fight about?

Anyway, it does feel pretty okay being back on here after a several years pause. If any of y'all are on Facebook and would like to at least check out my group, it's under the name What's The Dirt?

I do look forward to rejoining the ranks and seeing if this forum picks back up

 

[rivstg1]

i check in here every 2 weeks now, or so,....used to be more than once a day! I don't actively collect anymore ( not against it but have most of what I sought after)....other things in life have taken priority. I still enjoy the posts though

 

[vacuumlad1650]

As with many others, life has simply gotten in the way. I try to check here every week or so, and about the same with the Facebook groups. I have no intentions of getting rid of my current collection, which I still enjoy, and still pick up sweepers every once in a while. I've made great friends through this website and hobby, and a small group of us try to get together for monthly dinner and some holidays.

I don't have the patience to sit at my computer on here, or many other websites anymore. I spend enough time on the computer for my work as it is.