I'm as OCD as the next guy.
In fact, I think we all have some area or another that we want to be just perfect. I admitted one of my issues in a previous post.
One of the ways I overcame some of my compulsions is rationalizing to myself that the world is not perfect, and you can't be perfect. I let go of the days when the area rug had to perfectly align with the coffee table, and the couch cushions had to be in line with the front of the couch. The candle holders had to be exactly in the center of the table etc. . .
Then I decided it just takes too much energy, and besides me who cares? So I adopted the policy at my house "If you are coming to see me, come anytime." "If you are coming to see the house, make an appointment."
True OCD is debilitating for the person that suffers as well as the poor souls that have to be around them. I had a woman that worked with me for 16 long, agonizing, torturous months. It would take her all day to data enter a form that could be finished by a "normal" person in six minutes. She was always having to double check, and go back and make sure, and verify with the case manager this and that. Then she would come back in the middle of the night to check on something because she got to thinking that it should have been done another way. This caused a lot of friction between me, her closest co-worker, and her as well as other staff that had to deal with her.
Because of her carefulness and "eye for detail" she became a pet for one of the supervisors who then dumped her work on me, so she had time to scrutinize her one assessment a day whereas I was now entering 40 or more as well as my regular duties of billing, data enter, and covering the phones. Then there were the errors that I was blamed for because she never did anything so she didn't make any.
Finally after several meetings with HR and supervisors I told her. She could do as she pleased but I would not be a party to her psychosis. Thank the good Lord in Heaven the B!! quit. Praise Jesus.
Though I pity her I pray that our paths never cross again. MSRIH
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