Kyle, I never got any refund at all from the person. By time he had finally admitted what he had done, it was not about the money for me anymore. Nor was it about the "vast storehouse of Electrolux and Kirby treasures." Ultimately, all I really wanted was an admission, and an apology. When I got that emotional and spiritual relief, I was able to move on.
It may not sound like it, but I am "over it." If I wasn't over it, I -would- still be hounding him for the money. I only posted about it here to serve as a "been there, done that" warning for others, to echo Charlie Watrous' experience. Sometimes greed and dishonesty can even come between good friends.