Dave,
Excellent points!
I, too, have wondered about my home and my things when I'm gone. I've worked so hard for them. I've slaved over my home, too.
I actually put some vacs in a trust for a local vac shop owner. My family will unload my house right after my funeral, as, nobody lives near me.
My "brother from another mother", Tom Anderson, might get a call one day regarding my collection.
Some people have already "asked about items" here. I told them, "I hate to break it to you, but, I'm actually feeling fine".